Always be brisk in making all the documents that are required as per the Government regulations. Also, be cautious with whom you share your important documents.
The over-smart people tend to be suspicious of others. Perhaps they do not take the relationship for granted. They tend to take relationships with a pinch of salt.
We find the dumb-witted or the less intelligent people more lovable. Perhaps being lovable and less intelligent is built into our genes.
The social intelligence and the body language of our canine friends have evolved over thousands of years to be the 'man's best friend'. In this process, they split from their and wolves' common ancestor.
As promised by myself and husband, we took the girls for a day out to the beach resort. We went to GRT Radisson Bay for brunch. The buffet was OK but the service was excellent. After that the girls did some cycling at the resort. We spent the evening at the beach. The girls played a lot and had a good collection of shells by the time we wound up for the day. It was wonderful to see my little one make sand castles with her father. It was a very relaxing and enjoyable day.
Tomorrow the Indian Women's cricket team will play the World Cup finals against the host England. England is a strong team, no doubt, and they have their home ground advantage too. But our plus point is that we defeated them in the league match that led us to the finals.
I cannot understand why the Tamilnadu Govt is approaching the central govt to get the exemption for the students of this state from NEET examinations. They also demand some reservation for the students. Is it possible to consider just for one state? Is it not unjust to request so? Or is it indirectly admitting that the educational standard here is lower than other states?
As both my wife and I had half day as working day, we decided to have a simple meal for lunch. We had rice with sambar, one vegetable and buttermilk. There were potato chips too to go with the rice.
At least for one meal of the day, all the family members should be sitting together to have the meal. No TV, no reading newspaper or novels at that time. Just keep talking to your family members. Have that quality time. Share anything you want to with others.
I had a training session for the teachers of my school this morning. It was a very fruitful session.
Some of our failures happen mainly because at certain times we say 'yes' when actually we wish and want to say 'no'. We lose the courage to say what we want to express. Always say 'no' when we have to say 'no.
The weather has been very hot throughout today. It is almost like a summer day. No hint of any rain at all.
The weather is a bit chilly; no need to put on the fan. Usually, it had become a habit with me to put on the fan the moment I sit on the sofa in the hall. This time I feel almost shivering cold under the fan breeze.
The monsoon season is wonderful; this year it is the most enjoyable one. I sit in the hall watching the rains lashing at the window sills relentlessly. It is dark and I have to put on the light to read the newspaper.
Ram Nath Kovind becomes India's 14th president. Until yesterday he was almost unknown. The opposition's candidate Meira Kumar was better known than Kovind.
The prolification of smartphones has made the parenting task even tougher. Every kid on the block nowadays walks flaunting the latest style smartphone. God knows what all they can access under the sun!
Yesterday it was very cloudy here, and today the sun is shining very brightly. Each day the weather changes and can't predict about it nowadays.
One more weekend in my life. Tomorrow I have to conduct a session for the teachers on Multiple Intelligence in the morning. Afternoon I am free. I am sad that my wife has to go to Coimbatore on Sunday morning on official work and will be back only in the evening. I am going to be alone at home. Cafe Enoma is going to give me company.
Do not talk ill about any of the teachers of your son or daughter in front of them. They will lose the respect towards their teachers. Whatever may be, the teachers are the teachers whom the students should respect.
Peer pressure is the strongest force which the young and inexperienced people find hard to resist. That is the time when growing up children need the parental watchfulness and guidance the most.
It is easy for young people to deviate from the straight path. Once they get derailed it is extremely difficult to put them on back on the right track.
The adolescent time is the most vulnerable for most of the growing people. That is the time when parents have to be watchful. They can be easily derailed during this tempestuous time.
I feel very irritated when someone is not keeping the time or not being punctual. The politicians feel that if they arrive at a function on time, people will think that they don't have any work, so they purposely come hours late. But what about the people waiting for the politicians, don't they have anything to do? Why don't they have sense about it? Wasting the time of hundreds of people unnecessarily.
The Indian Women's Cricket team has stormed into the finals of the World cup, beating the favourites Australia. I sincerely hope the same in the finals against England on Sunday. Let India bring laurels to our nation. Good luck to them.
'If there is a will, there is a way', they say. If there is will power, there are 10,000 ways to achieve anything.
Whether anyone is watching or not, if you are driving a two wheeler, wear your helmet, and a four wheeler, your seat belt. It is not for the law, but for your own safety.
Ideal age for wedding ...women 23 years and men 27 years. We should plan our children and family with this time frame, to first get them well educated, settled in a career and immediately look out for the partner for the wedding at the right age. With this time frame set, the children will also have some maturity and the same time, will get the right match for them. So, as parents or counselors, we have to give this message to our people.
Be extremely careful about your money saved inside private bank accounts in India. It has come to our attention that most private banks (mainly HDFC and SBI) are openly cheating their customers and imposing hefty fines for things like not updating your KYC. HDFC Bank is one of these banks which has recently being blocking accounts of lakhs of customers and imposing a fine for getting it re-activated due to the above mentioned reasons. Just two weeks ago, the major scam of bank employees cloning customer debit and credit cards then using it to withdraw money from ATMs was covered on a leading news network (Times Network). I spoke to a friend who works in HDFC Bank at a senior position and she informed me that all private banks have been given a free hand by the Modi government to do such things and play games with their customers. I don't think that these rumors can be false because I have read shares on WhatsApp with complete details of account numbers and holders names mentioned in it. Also, the most shocking part of this is that your account will be blocked without even giving any intimation given. This is completely illegal. I feel ashamed to live in a country where such daylight robberies are being done openly due to the support of the central government.
Today afternoon was very romantic, me and my husband spent quality time by singing songs and enjoyed lot in a beautiful weather when cold winds were blowing and adding charm to our afternoon.
During the rains it is extremely important to stay dry and warm at all times to avoid seasonal flu. Taking vitamin C through fruits also helps to keep the immunity strong.
The milk used to get spoiled quick during the hot summer weather. If you are not using the milk right away, just stack the pack in the freezer. Take it out and thaw just before you are ready to boil it.
Good hygiene is my priority. Whenever I find a heap of unwashed dishes dumped in the kitchen, my hands tickle to go and clean them all.
The lunch is cooking in the kitchen - it is simple food, but very tasty and filled with a delicious aroma. I got bored with the little reading that I do. These days I scarcely read anything outside of daily newspapers.
Since the movements are restricted I feel a little bit lazy and idle. The 'kaamwali bai' came with a fancy umbrella, did her usual chores around the house in a relaxed manner and with a smile, and gone.
A relaxed afternoon today. Outside it is raining unceasingly and the pleasantly cool weather continues inside. I would not dare to go out unless it is an emergency.
People are conditioned by the surroundings, circumstances, family and the very genetic traits. The wise ones always choose to be conditioned good. They avoid the unwanted.
You are close by heart with someone, who accept you as you are. Please do revert the same.
All are not capable of equal understanding of a concept. So it is always nice for the intellectuals to give their compassionate ears to listen and guide others
Days back, people are not much aware of the term mind, because of the reason, life was so natural, and the instinct ruled each one's life. But today, the instinct disappears, the drama of mind rules....and hence the concept of counselling is heard widespread. So allow your instinct to rule your life. Be natural.
The human biological system comprises of physical body, mental body, emotional body and spiritual body. When there is a balance, the life is at peace.
All addictions are due to lack of self power. Promise for sure, when one's self is developed, he/she can come out of an addiction.
It is always easy to give tons of suggestions to others, but it is difficult to follow by us. Choose one at a time, try to follow it.
You cannot change other's nature. But you can influence or inspire others by your behavior. You change to change the world.
Imagine there are two doors in mind, one letting in all, other letting out all. So when a negative thought enters the door, be calm and allow the same to pass through the other door. Doing the same with awareness, you are free of too much negatives in you.
Some are good at expressing their heart by writing, some by talking, some by their gestures....some by being silent. The choice is yours, but give an honest expression.
People may deceive you by their dishonest sharing. Be alert to avoid such people.
Too much attachment of anything is always painful when you actually depart from the same. So, it is always wise to practice detached attachment. Which means, believing 'All is God', doing your responsibilities good with no expectations.
Sir, counselling rating scale seems to be very useful in helping us to know our strength and weakness. Working on our weakness will again help us to move towards honing our counselling skills. Realized, not in a day, one can master the skills of counselling. A lot learning, consistency, subject knowledge, following LEOPARDS formula, more practice sessions will help one to be the best counselor in future.
I was thinking of the issue that I can take for today's counselling. I selected the issue of my better half side..... his cousin's, seems to be very complicated and confusing, has no head and tail. However I was thinking, how to go about with the issue for the session. Unfortunately, the issue disturbs me sleep last two days. I am now clear that, I should quit from taking the issue to counselling. Sometimes, the gestures of mind and brain is well understood, when our regular pattern is disturbed, and going in to find the root cause, we recognize, we are owning something that is not good for us. So thanks to my instinct again, teaching me another good lesson with 2 sleepless nights. I just dropped the issue. Shall take other simple issue of my cousin. Sometimes, finding a issue seems to be very difficult for me.... Ha ha ha.
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